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No matter how well you know your significant other,
buying gifts for her can be a little harder than you expect. This can happen for a couple
of reasons. For one, you already believe that she has everything she needs,
and two, it may be that you don’t want to buy her something solely for the
sake of buying it.
Both of these pose a problem, though, and it creates quite a conundrum.
If you don’t buy her something, you come across like you don’t care, but
purchase something useless, and you risk the same thing. So, it’s essential
to have a solid plan and even a backup plan, whether the gift is big, small, something
meaningful, or something fun.
Something Big
You can gift her something big through a marriage proposal, and
these engagement rings are beautiful from every angle, so that’s something to consider. Or, if you are already married, you can take the gift one step further and buy her a house, a car, or something else or extraordinary value.
Despite this, something big doesn’t need to be something expensive, but
something that she can use and get plenty of mileage out (whether literal
mileage or not) is sure to feel like a massive step for you and her. It
needn’t be a grand gesture, either, but as long as it’s something that she
can use and will enjoy.
Something Small
Some partners don’t like it when you
go too overboard on a gift
, though, so instead consider how something small could bring a smile to
her face on her birthday or Christmas.
Think about things that you regularly do together, whether that’s putting
puzzles together or going on walks. These things will often cost no more
than $100, and in many cases, it will be even less, but it’s still
something that she can use whenever the need strikes her, and it won’t risk
putting you in debt.
Something Meaningful
Everyone loves something meaningful, and if you’ve been together for a long
time, you have years and years of history to explore and pick from.
Think back to when you first met and what you did. You may have
eaten at a particular restaurant. You might have watched something on TV,
or listened to an album that has stayed with the both of you since.
Rather than purchase something physical,
think about the experience and how that could make her the happiest girl around. You could take her to a favorite restaurant or to see a concert for a favorite musician. There is almost
certainly something she’s always wanted to do, so if you are struggling to
find something this time, then it is worth digging deep into the treasure
chest of memories you’ve made together to figure something out.
Buying for Her
While some people may be easy to buy for, the same can not be said for
everybody. If you feel your partner can be a little tricky to
read when a big day is just around the corner, it’s worth using your powers
of deduction to work out exactly what she wants. This ensures she will
remember this significant event, whether it’s an engagement, birthday, or
Christmas, for all the right reasons.
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